My 7-year-old daughter Ami has just got back from a holiday camp in Spain. She was away for three weeks, and I was entrusted with looking after Buttermellow.

Ami left me a typed (yes, typed) list of instructions with 12 bullet points for how to look after Buttermellow. Including how much he needs to be cuddled (a lot), what he likes to eat (marshmallows, porridge and no curry - he’s allergic), and his favorite game (Shopping List).

Here’s Buttermellow on some of his adventures over the last three weeks.

What I noticed in airports, on planes, and in workshops and courses I was running was that Buttermellow helped everyone relax. Jackie said it beautifully - Buttermellow’s presence helped create a safe container for the important work we were doing.

I think Buttermellow helps everyone relax. There’s an immediate connection. A big cuddle if needed. And it’s hard to take yourself too seriously with Buttermellow sitting on your knee.

What could you do to take advantage of the Buttermellow Effect?